It is fairly common to avoid that we experience, specifically if we don’t like what the experience brings with it. Often, dare I say ever, it is the emotional component that is disliked, unaccepted or denied.
Memory can be unreliable. Every time we pull out a scene, we fiddle with it a bit before we put it back. We are constantly altering our memory so that the past won’t conflict with the present. If, for example, we’re hating our ex-husband now, we might remember the wedding as less happy and might […]